I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding. I have known many women who have married non-members and are happy. This can also be the basis for forming important friendships, and learning proper skills for social interaction. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. It does not come from common religion or personality or even values; it only comes through mutual self transcendence. I have been looking for a support group on facebook but couldn't find one so I have created one. So basically we were lies to for years. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. Some of the most wonderful lesbian sex I've ever had was with a TBM girl.
Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. It sounds like you have found a good one. She will not marry you until you convert to mormonism whole cloth. I recently left my family, friends and state to move across the country to be with my best friend and boyfriend during his residency. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. Did this article help you. I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. I pray the holy Spirit will provide guidance to both of us, and that love conquers all. So I came across this blog and I was hoping you ladies could give me some advice.
Put that in perspective before you try to equate your struggle to his. I work 54 hours a week to be able to support myself my family is unable to help more than they already arevolunteer, am taking a class, and mcat studying. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. Because people who have problems with interfaith families must needs shortly become a thing of the past. Even if she does, you'll be the reason in her family's eyes. It won't be easy. Would she be okay with never being married in the temple. I would show her this recent post for example: Her family will also be thinking about this and will talk to you about it when you spend time with them. Anyway, i know that this is not the experience of every surgical marriage but i guarantee most of them can relate in some way or another. We are alone for many months at a time.
Even with the demands on his time, the man took the time and made the effort to post a profile on a dating site. And our strength doesn't necessarily come from ego or wealth. I would have to say absolutely NOT!!!!. He is an Anesthesiologist.