I'm afraid he's going to be more in love with work than me and a family. What a bozza topic. Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. I can't complain about the first 24yrs. I have no family nearby as I am from a different country. I am dating a wonderful man, amazing. Everyone seems to be supporting the idea that he is just too busy, but the truth is we over the internet can't judge his intent. I thought about those deeply spiritual moments I had had in life and how special they were to me. They could fill a book, the stories I could tell.
So, guess whatв We stopped. Otherwise, happiness can be found in any relationship. I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. If after all these suggestions you're thinking "в But I really like her. Facebook Email Twitter Print. And you will be shocked. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life. All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem. I've realized that we are both pretty social people and he thrives on all the action at the hospital. Have those candid conversations with HIM, ponder, and listen closely for the guidance of the Holy Ghost.
It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. Basically nothing like reality. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. I have been happily married to a non-mormon for 20 years. Even if you are looking towards marriage, it can be better to hold off on more serious activities until a couple of dates to make sure you both feel the relationship is moving in the right direction. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. All I can say is, "WOW". My spouse really is the most important and I would be nothing without them. Just trying to make it through the 3 week stretch of hour days of him at work Ok so I'm engaged to a doctor to be and let me tell y'all something, you might judge me or whatever but when things get hard I go out with my single friends and bring home all the numbers I received to show him, - he then has to choose between me or his case. What a bozza topic.
Sorry that you went through that. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. She can never hang out on Sundays because she apparently spends the entire day at church.