There are other ways. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. But I was unusual in that I never really wanted to convert my husband I was worried I'd have to divorce him if he turned true Mormon and he didn't need me to believe way he does. I hope it all works out for you. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. After dating a doctor for 5 years and finally realizing that what I'm dealing with is an excessive need for being put on a pedestal and adulation by mainly female colleagues of lower professional rank nurses I decided to move on. When I expressed how upset and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants to spend his money and what he plans to do. After two years of being together with very few problems, it ended within 30 minutes of having "The Talk" about my future religiosity. I went to BYU.
From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. He is toning down his opinions and ocd ways a little, to be fair to him, I try to ignore the strong opinions, and him rearranging things. The point is that there are way too many people talking in this thread as if they have some sort of psychic knowledge a stone in a hat, perhaps. My husband and I have a much closer relationship than ever before and I just hope that another blue eyed nurse doesn't come along to distract him. It is soooo difficult to cope. All parent-child relationships do. I hate that it's all on his terms. If you don't want to give up, then don't. Am still very hopeful and in love. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset.
She asked me the other night how it's possible for me to be such a good person when I don't believe in god. It has been very difficult to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams. For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. Odds are majorly against this dude. Of course, your parents will care most. How church discipline works. I like to think that what you said really resonated with her. Ive realized for the most part they are just too proudful and do not treat women very get. Listen to the still small voiceв.
Home no title About Contact. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him.