I am a military doctor's wife, so in addition to the hideous hours, we have deployments. From someone else in the medical field - a nightly phone call would be seriously draining, even if it only lasted a few minutes. But, you will probably lose. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. I have been married for 16 years to a cardiothoracic surgeon. And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce. He is truly my soulmate and I shudder to think that if I had not chosen to marry outside of the church, I would not have had this life with him. Weirdly, one of the best sexes I ever had was with a lesbian who felt remorse and as though she had betrayed her fellow lesbians. I really wish that I can figure out how to balance the demands of his family and our life together and make everyone happy - I think it is going to be a long road ahead, especially considering that his practice is local to our families.
If it is already an issue in your relationship, then it'll amplify to an extreme if you get married. However, my situation is very different. I also have an MPH degree, and am currently working and trying to support us while he's in school. I am totally okay with anything that doesn't place physical or mental demands on me. I believe rules are to be obeyed. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. There is the possibility that she will wise up over time, but not likely. But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl. I thought she would grow out of it. Where do you find Mormon girls.
We play doctor - then she leaves. But i am struggling to cope with him and his hectic schedule. I knew a woman who married a man who converted to the church and she spent the rest of their married life telling him he was not good enough. Your post could have been written by me, in August. Would I like to have him by my side. If you can't, then it's best to move on. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Not sure how much longer I can go on, like this As the physician, I found this blog searching for ways to make my spouse feel more important. Yet, this life is hard on the whole family. Joanna mentioned that our theology is rich with opportunities for second chances.
Ask her if her parents buy their underwear from a bookstore. Getting Over a Breakup. Not having expectations, as others mentioned, is also key to reducing feelings of frustration. It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth.