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Would she want you to attend church with her. I'm firmly in the RUN camp. She doesn't want to marry you. We raised 2 wonderful children who are now happy and successful adults. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. Lyman April 24, How appropriate to celebrate this second night of Hannukah with not one but two queries about interfaith marriage. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. With the amount of hours they must study and work they are exhausted a lot. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind.
Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. When you make the best choice for you, blessings will follow. I was lucky with my TBM.
I had thought after so many years I would find a way to deal with the resentment. It is really hard and so good to see that I am not alone in this.
As for me, I recall spending a lot of Sundays at sporting events with my dad. This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon.
Don't forget too that IF you are successful in turning the lights on and deconverting her, the family would resent you the rest of their lives. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. I married a person, not a religion. I know "Meet the Mormons" isn't what I'm looking for I went through a very similar experience earlier this year and the community was extremely helpful. Think about what you want in a relationship. I'm not in medicine I'll be graduating with a degree in journalism in December but I know the trials he has to go through with difficult schedules I work for a morning show from 2am-8am. Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved.
I still feel enriched by the contrasts, but in the important things, we have largely come together. My husband started a solo practice and the last few years have been very difficult on our marriage- financially as well as personally. Lok for certain things: Spend some time with a few and you will know what to look for. I completely agree with you. I'm the overly busy person. Sorry man, but if I knew what I know now I would have cut my losses. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe. Then you complain when the polish of being married to a doctor wears off and you grow callused to the money and big house. I know he loves me with all of his heart. I'm surprised this thread is still getting replies.
And as an anonymous comment put it, date night is sometimes out of the question because he is using his "free" time as catch up on sleep time. These garments will not be fun for dating, if you know what I mean. Life After Mormonism Chat.