Be specific every time you ask. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. I have been dating a great guy for about a year now, and we started dating shortly after my parents died of cancer. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. She is considered "an old maid" by Mormon standards, so she may be willing to marry you--hoping you will convert someday --but she will constantly be reminded that your marriage is inferior to the "Eternal Families" of sealed Mormons, and she will fear dying and never seeing her loved ones again. Ragonk If you don't get it, never mind. This isn't encouraging to me, it's sad. Now, lest you look at this all and say, "sheesh, go to counseling. True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out.
I have had to compromise more often than I would have liked. He isn't always around for holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. No doubt that some will be valiant up on the other side of the veil, but just as sure there will others who will reject salvation because of their high mindedness. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. They are just really convinced they are right. But this phase isn't going to be short. I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. Maybe he thinks it wouldn't be a bad idea to cheat - these women understand him.
I married a non-member over 20 years ago. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics. January 17, February 18, Spending time with this guy is hard to come by. Our communication is almost gone to none, he needs a lot a lot of alone time to achieve his career while i am really worried that how much longer i can live like this!!. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Righteous love does conquer all but in some cases it takes a lot longer than we are willing to wait. Should I just end it if the loneliness bothers me already. I'm no doctor so what am I supposed to do twiddle my thumbs in our room while he gets back. Props to people who do. Mormon women greatly value sincerity of purpose.
The church can be a very cruel place for single people. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. The church is very important to her.