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That's all she thought about for 18 months, plus the months leading up to it, and winding down. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. If you do not have a lot of time together, make every second count. I know some people don't like the sound of "working for a relationship", but it can be so rewarding. Her goal is to make you mormon. If you remain active, Church service is very demanding of our lives в not a Sunday thing. Oh, and remember LDS girls are usually good at leading guys on with potential sex to get guys to agree to what they want join the church. I also remember my father a stake president telling me the night before I got married that every single couple he had counseled through marriage struggles were not reading their scriptures or praying together every night. It is positively shocking. This girl is also a real person, not a caricature of a cult member, and even if the ultimate result is a breakup, she deserves to be treated with compassion and respect.
Blogroll By Common Consent C. The only thing they value it's themselves and their career. Can I add to this extremely old thread. Its really much harder than what I thought. Log in or sign up in seconds. That question really put things into perspective for me, so thank you. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. Everything about the loneliness and bourdon of raising the kids solo resonates. She sounds so indoctrinated that like even if you try to get her to open up, who knows you might get like a BJ out of it doesn't sound like it but who knowsyou have to realize that a lifetime of conditioning will be set in motion in her mind that will make your life hell. This always seemed terribly wrong to me.
Right now, my husband is in his third and final year of an extremely draining and stressful fellowship. Being married and raising a family can be very difficult if the two of you disagree about important issues like religion. Take the crazy and add a ton of even crazier shit on on top and Your girlfriend literally believes in a book of scripture that was produced from a rock in Josephs Hat. I loved being single, and I love dating him now, but demanding rotations are giving me an idea of what his surgical residency will be like except that I know it will be x I have spent hours and hours and hours on blogs like these, trying to understand if it will be worth it-- worth the very real possibility of losing my identity, of boxing myself in career-wise, of never being in control of where I live, of a thousand lonely nights. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. Its great to hear advice from those who know. It's almost like I feel as though I have to watch what I say at all times especially when he has residents calling him for various things, might be on call that night, and has to be at the OR by 5: When I myself was interning in my profession, the girl I interned with had married her boyfriend who is also a specialist earlier that year. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. Have been MD in good relationship for 25 years with kids etc but key is that my wife has her own life and works as hard as I do at her own career and isn't caught up in my world.
There's definitely strength in kindred spirits. Would they have stayed in the church if dad was a member. Signs of an Affair.