That one I haven't asked him about yet though since I feel like it would be a little presumptuous and might seem like I'm rushing things commitment-wise. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with. Mormonism is an all-in religion. I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. January 4, at 2: January 21, at 9: January 28, at March 20, at 5: May 30, at 5: June 29, at June 14, at 5: August 12, at 9: August 20, at 6: Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email required Address never made public. I love my husband with my whole soul. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. He knows that is a possibility. You should both sit down and have a serious conversation about what you want and what she wants and if you can both deal with the compromise. Your relationship with your family will be healed, and so will you.
Had to switch to more flexible job. And their feelings about your marriage are their businessвnot yours. You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. Many Mormons stick to a small group of friends within the church. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. They are just really convinced they are right. Pin It on Pinterest. I am 27, LDS, and 5 days away from marrying my own amazing non-Mormon man. Did things right and got married. There are such things as perfect loving families though.
He believes in God, but also believes that God is everywhere, and therefore does not need to be worshipped in a specific place of worship with specific prayers. Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. Give them a hour to de-stress once they get home. They are at the service of others at the expense of their family. Those will make her think. I believe rules are to be obeyed. He was devastatedcalled me every night crying telling me to please go back. Thought the girl and I had a future, and we did, just not with each other I'll bet there are hundreds of boyfriend converts out there. We keep getting more and more wedding invitations to our apt and with each one I feel like my dreams float farther and farther away. We met on the day he was accepted into medical school, lived together for his rotations during 3rd and 4th years and were all set to move together for residency.
I would need to ask my husband again. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. Facebook Email Twitter Print. I found that it worked just as well.