Two years ago, I found out he was having an affair with one of his PA's at the hospital. Pray about it and follow your heart. Every new set will see your man with fresh and hungry eyes as a potential golden contact. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. Interfaith marriage is but one variety of the learning experience. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. That question really put things into perspective for me, so thank you. I really hadn't considered a lot of the points people have brought up. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great. My boyfriend and I are both in medical school and it is so difficult to manage a relationship while surviving the class load.
I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else.
The importance of modesty. Interfaith marriage is but one variety of the learning experience. What this guy needs is support and understanding Maybe you didn't intend it this way, but it sounds like you're assuming I'm not already giving him the benefit of the doubt, space, support, and understanding. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. Don't fall in love with a married man. Thank you so much for posting your thoughts. Interfaith marriage is but one variety of the learning experience. We have moved four times to 3 different states to accommodate his career, and had 3 children along the way. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. Even though we don't have kids I know the feeling of spending my Mrs Doctor life alone.
The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. It's a less common occurrence, but it happens. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion. Well, you know what you're not going to get into before marriage So fuck that relationship. It's a foolish dream I suppose. He says that I should be happy that he is giving me all the comforts of life. Now just ask yourself what are the odds of her thinking her way out that crazy nonsense. Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. Joint Accredited with multiple accreditations, including:. It is exactly what I needed.
He's emotionally threatening me to keep his infidelities a secret. She might not realize how important it is to compromise. He probably hates even the memory of me for getting him in that stupid church.