I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. That was hard on my relationship and I had to give up on my dream of being a computer programmer. Patience my dear, that's what you're going to have to keep telling yourself. Someone already said it, but unless you are planning on converting, this is a dead end relationship. And here's a fabulous musical explanation of how the church came to franchise it's ecclesiastical services and doctrinal instruction in a process known as correlation. There is a lot about Mormonism I am still struggling to understand, but I am reading faith-based memoirs and studying up on Mormonism as well as other religions but the relevance here is on Mormonism. You join the LDS Church. To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. I never give him shit for it. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them.
If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. He is always going to be the vulnerable, tired, needy one in our relationship and I don't feel like a doormat for being the one who provides that support and love to him anymore. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS.
He doesn't even think he works that much even though he sleeps 5 hours a night when he sleeps at all. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. Dating a resident is hard - it was hard to realize that I can't come first, or even second, in this relationship right now. I learned that going out and having fun with friends every single weekend was not going to be part of our lifestyle together due to time restrictions, tiredness, etc. You need to repent and change. The point is that he should ASK her if this is true for her. Move on, but after thanksgiving. I've moved to be with him for med school, then we moved again for residency and just moved again for fellowship. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. He suffers from cybersexual addiction and feels as though he can have and woo every woman he wants in this forum.
And the you've seen the CES letter. I hate to say it, but if you are serious, go explore her world. This means that she will probably be dating others at the same time as you. I am in relationship with my fiance for almost a year. As ex-mormons, can anyone here offer some insight about this girl, her religion, and what exactly I may be getting myself into if I continue dating her. It sure has its ups and downs. I say to you, decisions determine destiny. Oh well, at least now I know. We have known each other for many years. Among Mormons, 25 is practically an old maid.
If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. That ended in OP should do the most honest thing possible. For now, again, don't expect a decade long relationship. He is absolutely, hands-down my favorite human being on the planet.